Current Mood: ready for new possibilities
I have gone through a period of detox lately. This means that all those men that kept on coming around (I let em go back into the water soon enough after they jumped out) are gone. No more fish in the sea. But
The water is still as can be and a feeling of calmness resonates from my body. I've gone through a period of detox. There were many fish in the sea for a while and for some reason they wouldn't stop biting. I let em go back in the water almost as soon as I could evaluate there worthiness. Don't get me wrong.. I am not saying "they're not worthy" - but ok, I am.. but not the way it sounds. It's not that I have something against these men.. they just weren't for me. I don't think it's a bad thing to be able to judge that with just a few interactions. It can be done and sure I could have missed the mark too but I'm willing to believe that for these ones in particular, I haven't missed anything. So that brings me to where I am now.
Starting from Scratch.
Atleast a month, if not more since the last boy called and left me a voicemail. I never returned it b/c it came a whole month after we talked last - why qualify that? I don't need it and wasn't particularly interested in it anyways.
So on Saturday I attend a meet market. I just realized that it's been over a year and a half since the last one of those that I've attended. This one is local and in all likelihood it will be crap. But I'm going to look at it like this: No pain no gain. Maybe just maybe their will be someone there for me. Gotta hope.. I'm not getting any younger
Well. thats it for me today.
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2 comments:
“meat market” lol …I guess it’s a nice way to put it.
I don’t know how this works for others but I realized that whenever I’m NOT looking the perfect person seems to appear.
Do u ever wonder if us girls still have the fantasy of prince charming from all those Disney stories and bollywood movie, that makes it harder for us to settle down with someone.
I mean wat is a guy i get married to suppose to be for me. Is he just an extension to my life, someone I can share with (thats all). or is he suppose to be life changing for me?
One of my ex-potential (now a friend) is getting married and he "can't wait to get back to normal life once wedding planning is over". I reminded him that marriage is life altering event.
Yet he is right. after marriage (he will still live in same house, have same job, same schedule), the only difference is there will be someone by his side, thats all. he isn't expecting any financial change via her, or change in his daily house cleaning/cooking activity.
Eventually things will change, as human our life changes with time. but its not his concern.
for girls, I don't think we look for "someone by outside" but more "someone who will alter our life in a better direction"
finding someone for the first choice is easier dan 2nd.
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