I'm not sure how long my pause actually lasted or if it began at all. Ohh the long weekend was so nice! And this weekend isn't too packed so it'll be good as well.
You're probably wondering why I haven't spend so much time lamenting the details of my search. I guess - sometimes I think I shouldnt' think so much about it. That when it comes, it'll come and theres nothing I can really do to push and proddle it along. But then - I'm aleady thought about thinking, and also, I know I'm in this scenario trying to meet people on my own too.
Sometimes I feel like I'm a slut. I've gotten to know so many people - albeit for as short a time period as a single 3 liner email. The point is that people do talk. I wonder what they say about me. If they know. Atleast the older generation? Do they know? Are the boys talking amongst themselves? I bet you even in todays modern and high tech world (and the world of online dating) there is a double standard between men and women. So I wonder...should I accept the invitation to talk to multiple guys? Should I take one at a time while I sort through them? What if two are equally as good in terms of their profile? What do I do then?
So many questions! If only I knew the right answers!
Well thats it for this post. Stay tuned.
1 comment:
My method is:
talk to everyone, ur just searching. if u take the traditional arrange path, u would be meeting more than one.
just keep urself in check, don't do anything crazy like falling for 2 people or falling for one while talking 2 more.
but it is tough decision. I guess few email exchange or pic exchange is nothing. but going out u gotta narrow it down
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